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50 NGL questions to ask on your story

50 questions · Updated 10 Nov 2026

An anonymous link only works if the question makes people want to reply. “Send me anonymous messages” gets a few; a sharp, specific question gets your whole follower list typing. These 50 are written to do exactly that — honest enough to be interesting, light enough that nobody feels put on the spot.

Pick one, put it on your link and share it to your story. Swap it every few days to keep replies coming. Every question here works on any NGL-style link; on Sustalk you can tap Ask to make it your link's question straight away. Want ratings and first impressions? Try these TBH questions.

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Questions about you

  1. 1.What's the first thing you noticed about me?
  2. 2.What's one thing you'd never guess about me from my posts?
  3. 3.What do people say about me when I'm not around?
  4. 4.What's my most underrated quality?
  5. 5.Which song reminds you of me?
  6. 6.What's a habit of mine you secretly find funny?
  7. 7.If I were a dish, what would I be?
  8. 8.What's one thing I should do more often?
  9. 9.What do you think I was like at 10?
  10. 10.Rate my vibe from 1 to 10 — and be honest.

Honest opinions

  1. 11.What's your honest first impression of me?
  2. 12.What's something I'm wrong about?
  3. 13.Do I come across as approachable or intimidating?
  4. 14.What should I stop posting?
  5. 15.What's one thing you've always wanted to ask me?
  6. 16.Am I a good texter or a terrible one?
  7. 17.What's the most “me” thing I've ever done?
  8. 18.What's one opinion of mine you disagree with?
  9. 19.Do you think I'd survive a week without my phone?
  10. 20.What advice would you give me right now?

Confessions and secrets

  1. 21.Confess something you've never told me.
  2. 22.What's a secret you'd only tell me anonymously?
  3. 23.Have you ever had a crush on me? Be honest.
  4. 24.What's the pettiest thing you've done this year?
  5. 25.Who in our circle do you think I'd date?
  6. 26.What's a rumour you've heard about me?
  7. 27.Have you ever been jealous of me? Why?
  8. 28.What's something you regret not saying to me?
  9. 29.What's the most embarrassing thing you've seen me do?
  10. 30.Tell me a secret about yourself — I won't know it's you.

Fun and random

  1. 31.What's your go-to order at a chai tapri?
  2. 32.Which celebrity do I remind you of?
  3. 33.If we were stuck in a lift together, what would we talk about?
  4. 34.What's a movie I absolutely have to watch?
  5. 35.Describe me in exactly three emojis.
  6. 36.What's the worst advice you've ever followed?
  7. 37.If I had a theme song, what would it be?
  8. 38.What should I do this weekend?
  9. 39.Which fictional character am I most like?
  10. 40.What's one thing that instantly makes your day better?

The bold ones

  1. 41.What's your biggest red flag?
  2. 42.What's the most toxic trait you'll admit to?
  3. 43.Who was your last crush? Initials only.
  4. 44.What's something you'd change about our friendship?
  5. 45.What do you think I'm secretly bad at?
  6. 46.If you could swap lives with me for a day, what would you do first?
  7. 47.What's one question you're scared I'll answer honestly?
  8. 48.What do you think my type is?
  9. 49.Would you go on a trip with me? Where to?
  10. 50.What's the one thing you'd never forgive?

Tips

Change it every few days

Replies slow down once your regulars have answered. Swap the question every two or three days. Your link stays the same, so the sticker on any story that's still up keeps working.

Post when people have time

Evenings are when people scroll slowly enough to type more than one word. Post then, and add a nudge like “be honest” or “no wrong answers” to get longer replies.

Answer the good ones

Replying to a few messages on your story shows people their answers land — and that's what brings the next wave. On Sustalk, Reply on your story makes the image for you with the question, the message and your answer.

Keep the hate out

Anonymous doesn't have to mean cruel. If you're sharing widely, choose a stricter filter so mean messages wait in Hidden instead of your inbox. Here's how the safety tools work.

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