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50 NGL questions to ask your friends

50 questions · Updated 10 Nov 2026

Questions for your friends work differently from questions for everyone. Your group shares the same trips, chats and disasters, so the answers can be specific — and anonymous means nobody has to own the spicy ones. These 50 are built around group memories, who's who, honest friend talk and pure nonsense.

Post one to your Close Friends story so only the group can answer, then screenshot the best replies back into the group chat and let the guessing begin. If you're after one person rather than the whole group, try these questions to ask your best friend.

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Group memories

  1. 1.What's your favourite memory of us as a group?
  2. 2.Which trip should we never have taken?
  3. 3.What's the funniest thing that's happened in our group chat?
  4. 4.Which night out do you still think about?
  5. 5.What did you think of the last person who joined our group?
  6. 6.What's a plan we made and never followed through on?
  7. 7.Which of our inside jokes would make zero sense to anyone else?
  8. 8.What's the worst food we've ever eaten together?
  9. 9.When did you realise we'd be friends for life?
  10. 10.Where should our next group trip be?

Who's who

  1. 11.Who in our group is the real planner?
  2. 12.Who's always late, and what's their best excuse?
  3. 13.Who would survive longest on a deserted island?
  4. 14.Who gives the best advice in our group?
  5. 15.Who's the secret softie of the group?
  6. 16.Who would win a dance-off at a wedding?
  7. 17.Who in our group is going to be famous one day?
  8. 18.Who texts the longest paragraphs?
  9. 19.Who's the group's unofficial therapist?
  10. 20.Who should never be allowed to plan a party again?

Honest friend talk

  1. 21.What's something I do that annoys the group?
  2. 22.Am I the friend who listens or the friend who talks?
  3. 23.What's one thing you wish our group did more?
  4. 24.Have you ever felt left out of our plans?
  5. 25.Which friend in the group understands you best?
  6. 26.What's something you've never told the group?
  7. 27.What's one thing I could do to be a better friend?
  8. 28.What would you change about our group chat?
  9. 29.Which friendship rule do we always break?
  10. 30.When did someone in our group surprise you most?

Just for laughs

  1. 31.If our group was a TV show, what would it be called?
  2. 32.Which of us would be the worst roommate?
  3. 33.What would our group's band name be?
  4. 34.Who has the most chaotic phone gallery?
  5. 35.What's the most dramatic thing someone in our group has said?
  6. 36.If we were all pizza toppings, who'd be pineapple?
  7. 37.Who would reply to the wrong chat with something embarrassing?
  8. 38.What's our group's most overused phrase?
  9. 39.Who in our group would survive a horror movie?
  10. 40.What snack is basically our group's mascot?

Bold ones

  1. 41.Who in our group would you trust with your biggest secret?
  2. 42.Have you ever had a crush on someone in our group?
  3. 43.Which two of us should date?
  4. 44.What's one argument in the group you still think you won?
  5. 45.Who's changed the most since we all met?
  6. 46.What's something the group got wrong about you?
  7. 47.What's a secret the group never found out?
  8. 48.Who do you text first when something big happens?
  9. 49.If you could add one person to our group, who would it be?
  10. 50.What would you say to the group if nobody knew it was you?

Tips

Use your Close Friends list

Share the question to Close Friends so only the group sees it. Replies get far more specific when everyone knows the same people and the same stories.

Bring the answers back to the chat

Post the funniest replies to the group chat and let everyone guess who wrote what. Nobody can know for sure — including you — which is exactly what makes it fun.

Be careful with “who annoys the group”

Questions that single people out can sting. Pick a filter level that hides insults, skip answers that are mean about a named person, and keep those questions for groups that can laugh at themselves.

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