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50 TBH questions to ask your followers

50 questions · Updated 10 Nov 2026

TBH means “to be honest”, and a TBH question asks people for exactly that: their honest take on you. First impressions, ratings out of ten, the habit they'd change, whether they'd trust you with a secret. Put one on your story with an anonymous link and the honesty takes care of itself.

Every question below starts with “tbh” because it sets the tone — people answer more truthfully when the question asks them to. Not sure what the slang means in other contexts? Here's what tbh means alongside ngl.

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First impressions

  1. 1.tbh, what did you think of me when we first met?
  2. 2.tbh, did you think we'd become friends?
  3. 3.tbh, what was my vibe on day one?
  4. 4.tbh, did I seem rude or shy at first?
  5. 5.tbh, what's one thing you assumed about me that turned out wrong?
  6. 6.tbh, what had you heard about me before we met?
  7. 7.tbh, did you think I was older or younger?
  8. 8.tbh, what changed your mind about me?
  9. 9.tbh, what would you tell someone meeting me for the first time?
  10. 10.tbh, would you have spoken to me first?

Rate me

  1. 11.tbh, rate my Instagram feed out of 10.
  2. 12.tbh, rate my fashion sense out of 10.
  3. 13.tbh, rate my sense of humour out of 10.
  4. 14.tbh, rate my music taste out of 10.
  5. 15.tbh, rate me as a friend out of 10.
  6. 16.tbh, rate my texting game out of 10.
  7. 17.tbh, rate my cooking — if you've survived it.
  8. 18.tbh, rate my dance moves out of 10.
  9. 19.tbh, rate my selfie skills out of 10.
  10. 20.tbh, rate my laugh out of 10.

Honest opinions

  1. 21.tbh, what's my most annoying habit?
  2. 22.tbh, am I a good listener?
  3. 23.tbh, what do you think I overthink?
  4. 24.tbh, do I post too much?
  5. 25.tbh, am I as funny as I think I am?
  6. 26.tbh, what do I talk about way too much?
  7. 27.tbh, what should I be more confident about?
  8. 28.tbh, what's my best quality?
  9. 29.tbh, would you trust me with a secret?
  10. 30.tbh, do I seem happy lately?

You and me

  1. 31.tbh, what do you like about our friendship?
  2. 32.tbh, do you think we talk enough?
  3. 33.tbh, what's one thing you'd want us to do together?
  4. 34.tbh, have you ever been annoyed with me and not said it?
  5. 35.tbh, what's your favourite memory with me?
  6. 36.tbh, would you call me in an emergency?
  7. 37.tbh, do I make you laugh?
  8. 38.tbh, what's one thing you've always wanted to tell me?
  9. 39.tbh, do you think we'll still be friends in ten years?
  10. 40.tbh, are we close or just mutuals?

The spicy ones

  1. 41.tbh, would you date me?
  2. 42.tbh, have you ever stalked my profile?
  3. 43.tbh, who do you think I like?
  4. 44.tbh, what rumour have you heard about me?
  5. 45.tbh, am I your type?
  6. 46.tbh, have you ever screenshotted my story?
  7. 47.tbh, what's my biggest red flag?
  8. 48.tbh, do you think I'm a flirt?
  9. 49.tbh, who's my best match in our circle?
  10. 50.tbh, what's one thing you'd never say to my face?

Tips

Lead with “tbh”

Starting with tbh tells people you actually want the honest version, not a polite one. It's a small word that changes the answers you get.

Ratings get the fastest replies

“Rate my feed out of 10” takes two seconds to answer, so more people do. Use a rating question when you want volume, and an opinion question when you want depth.

Decide what you'll share

Some TBH answers are lovely, some are blunt. Read them first, then reply on your story to the ones you're happy to share. Anything mean can be blocked or reported — the sender is never told.

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