This or that

50 this or that questions

50 questions · Updated 10 Nov 2026

This or that is the fastest way to learn about someone: two options, one choice, no overthinking. Chai or coffee says more than you'd expect. These 50 pairs cover food, lifestyle, entertainment, travel and personality, with plenty of Indian favourites in the mix.

On a story, post a pair and let people answer anonymously — or post your own picks and ask followers which ones they'd swap. For bigger dilemmas, step up to these would you rather questions.

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Food and drink

1.Chai or coffee?Ask
2.Samosa or kachori?Ask
3.Biryani or pulao?Ask
4.Pani puri or bhel puri?Ask
5.Pizza or burger?Ask
6.Sweet or spicy?Ask
7.Mango or watermelon?Ask
8.Dosa or idli?Ask
9.Chocolate or vanilla?Ask
10.Home food or eating out?Ask

Lifestyle

11.Early bird or night owl?Ask
12.Gym or yoga?Ask
13.Texting or calling?Ask
14.Cats or dogs?Ask
15.Summer or winter?Ask
16.City life or small town?Ask
17.Sneakers or sandals?Ask
18.Window seat or aisle?Ask
19.Morning shower or night shower?Ask
20.Plans or spontaneity?Ask

Entertainment

21.Movies or series?Ask
22.Bollywood or Hollywood?Ask
23.Netflix or YouTube?Ask
24.Books or podcasts?Ask
25.Old songs or new songs?Ask
26.Comedy or horror?Ask
27.Cricket or football?Ask
28.Concerts or comedy shows?Ask
29.Reels or long videos?Ask
30.Watching sports or playing them?Ask

Travel

31.Beach or mountains?Ask
32.Road trip or flight?Ask
33.Goa or Manali?Ask
34.Hotel or homestay?Ask
35.Solo trip or group trip?Ask
36.Plan everything or wing it?Ask
37.Backpack or suitcase?Ask
38.Sunrise or sunset?Ask
39.Local food or familiar food on holiday?Ask
40.Train or bus?Ask

Personality

41.Introvert or extrovert?Ask
42.Head or heart?Ask
43.Listener or talker?Ask
44.Saver or spender?Ask
45.Lead or follow?Ask
46.Big party or small dinner?Ask
47.Text first or wait?Ask
48.Brutal honesty or a white lie?Ask
49.Morning motivation or late-night ideas?Ask
50.Forgive or forget?Ask

Tips

Post ten in a row

This or that works best as a run of quick stories. Post your own picks for ten pairs, then put one pair on your link and ask people which of your picks they disagree with.

Use it as an icebreaker

With someone new, two or three pairs break the ice faster than “so, what do you do?” — and every answer is a natural follow-up question.

Make it local

Swap in places and foods from your own city: two cafés, two street-food spots, two weekend getaways. Local pairs get the most passionate replies.